The lonely old man longs to fall in love and get married!
The first obstacle is nothing else. It is the old-fashioned morality that the elderly have.
They often pour themselves cold water on their own, “all so old, and talk about love.”
Most elderly people are influenced by feudal clinical ethics, and they think that it is the cultivation of noble people who are ignorant of sex. Therefore, even if there is desire in this aspect, self-repression is carried out.
Even some elderly people with certain cultural accomplishments may also use the language that cannot be refuted. Old age love is the manifestation of Alzheimer’s disease.
銆€銆€The second obstacle is the pressure from public feudal customs and public opinion.
Before a few liberations, especially the liberation, the widows re-married and the widows remarried. Their reputations have not always been so good. Many people always comment on the feudal and stereotypes of “good women don’t marry two husbands”. It often becomes a street tail, after a mealThe hot topic, and there is always a bit of irony in it, so that the elderly who want to remarry are daunting and deterred.
It is like a net that you can’t see and touch, so that you can’t tear it off.
In fact, the elderly have the right to have their own independent ideas. He has the right to love and marry freely according to his own will.
銆€銆€The third obstacle is the opposition of the children.
Opponents can come in countless reasons, such as inheritance will fall into the hands of others; some people will gossip, think that the younger generation is not filial, the elders will make the next decision; they will marry the deceased wife; they will not care for the nursing mother (stepfather))Wait.
It’s not uncommon to find a marriage that has been forced to be lifted because of these reasons.
The elderly are both interested but unable to get married, which is a major correction.
The younger generation nailed their parents to the position of “parents” forever, instead of putting them in the same way as themselves.
They didn’t think about their parents at all. The parents who lived in the wind and the ages lived alone and alone, and lived happily and meaningfully.
銆€銆€The fourth obstacle is the lack of housing and long-term independent income, which hinders the marriage and love of the elderly.
It is necessary to improve the social labor insurance system, especially for the unaccompanied elderly in rural areas who do not have a pension.
At the same time, the elderly should realize that they should invest their accumulated money into their old age.
銆€銆€The fifth obstacle is the lack of counseling agencies and experts for elderly love, marriage services.
Many cities in China have established old-age marriage agencies, but they are still pitiful in the face of a large lonely elderly population.
Training for experts who understand the issue of sexuality of the elderly is also a priority.